Hey everyone. I'm a little over 3 weeks out and still have a lot of pain around my large incision. Pulling, discomfort,stabbing feeling...when I try to pick things up, sleep, drive, roll over. It's also tender around the area. It's starting to mess with my brain and well being. I never know when the extreme pain will come because it happens with various things. Is it just the healing process? Is there anything I can do to speed it up, or give comfort? My surgeon lives almost three hours away, so I want to make sure it's a normal after surgery pain before I take the trip. Any advice would be helpful.